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Should You Self-Publish or Find a Literary Agent? The Real Business of Writing a Book

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Hi Dave – Which way do you lean when it comes to publishing a book? Should I try to get a NYC literary agent and a traditional publisher, or just self-publish? My blog is basically a manuscript in progress, but it’s already been reviewed – and rejected – by several agents through AgentQuery.com. One agent even sent me a personalized note saying it was great material, just not his style… but still worth publishing. As George Carlin once said: “A definite no… yeah.” Thanks! – C.B.

Is that a yes or a no?

Hey C.B. – If you had asked me that question when my first book came out through a New York publisher, I would have given you a long speech about why you should never self-publish.

Today? I’m right in the middle.

I’ve done both – traditional publishing and self-publishing – and there are advantages and disadvantages to each. Honestly, there’s no reason you can’t do both.

This topic comes up all the time with speakers and comedians because writing is part of the business. Whether it’s material for the stage, speeches, articles, or eventually a book, creative people write.

And let’s face it – most people believe the old saying:

Everyone has at least one book in them.

Writing it is one challenge.

Getting it published, read, and actually making money from it? That’s a whole different story.

So let’s get to your real question:

Literary Agent or Self-Publish?

First, let’s clear something up.

A “NYC agent” does not guarantee anything.

Your literary agent can be in New York, Los Angeles, Atlanta, London, or anywhere else. Publishing is largely handled online now, along with book fairs, networking events, and industry connections. Geography matters far less than relationships.

Case in point – my literary agent is based in Atlanta, and she landed me two book deals with New York publishers.

Before that, I lived in Manhattan for 14 years and ran one of the most famous comedy clubs in the world. I had contacts in television, film, and nightlife – but not publishing.

Without a literary agent, I would have never gotten past the gatekeepers.

My agent handled the submissions, made the calls, worked her contacts, and got the deals.

That’s the real value.

It’s Who They Know

What’s your story?

A literary agent’s success doesn’t depend on where they live.

It depends on who they know.

Their job is to get your work into the right hands – the editors and publishers who can actually say yes.

But first, you need the product.

That means the manuscript.

If you’re already famous, your agent can probably sell an idea or outline. If Taylor Swift calls her agent with a book idea, she gets a deal.

You and I?

We’d better have the full manuscript ready.

Traditional Publishing = Prestige

In my opinion, getting a real publisher to release your book is still the gold standard.

It’s harder. It takes longer. It can feel nearly impossible for an unknown author.

But it can happen – I’m proof.

And yes, it feels good knowing professionals in publishing believe in your work enough to invest real money and time.

There’s also still a stigma around self-publishing.

Sorry if that bruises a few egos, but it’s true.

Ask an author, “Who published your book?”

Saying the name of a recognized publishing house sounds a lot stronger than saying, “Well… I did.”

But Speakers and Comedians Need to Think Differently

Now let me shift this toward the people I usually write for – speakers and comedians.

Because honestly…

Who cares who published your book if the book helps you make money?

Professional speakers and comedians understand something called:

BOR Sales

(Back Of the Room)

Books. T-shirts. Audio programs. Videos. Merchandise.

If it isn’t nailed down backstage, someone is probably trying to sell it.

And smart performers should.

That’s where self-publishing becomes incredibly valuable.

Self-Publishing Can Pay Fast

Traditional publishing is prestigious.

Self-publishing is practical.

A publisher may give you an advance – which is great.

But self-publishing lets you create inventory for BOR sales.

You can literally open a box of books in the morning, do a speaking engagement or comedy show that night, and go home counting cash.

That’s real business.

I’m a big fan of Kindle Direct Publishing (KDP) for both paperbacks and eBooks. Costs have come down significantly.

But remember this:

You can’t autograph an eBook.

After a strong performance, audiences want more information – or a souvenir.

A signed physical book gives them both.

That’s why printed books still matter.

Don’t Go Cheap

If you self-publish, invest in quality.

Too many people look for the cheapest possible printer and end up with a cheap-looking book.

Bad idea.

A poor-quality book kills sales.

People will smile, shake your hand, compliment your performance – and walk away without buying.

In publishing, like comedy:

You get what you pay for.

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So What Should You Do?

My answer is:

Yes – try for both.

Pursue a literary agent and traditional publishing.

Absolutely.

But while you’re waiting – and yes, it can take years – also explore self-publishing, especially if you’re already performing regularly.

Because here’s the reality:

Most aspiring authors hear “no” far more than “yes.”

Can your ego handle that?

Self-publishing gives you immediate control.

Traditional publishing gives you long-term credibility.

Both can work.

Final Thought

If you truly have a book in you, get it out.

Look for literary agents.

Research submission guidelines.

Study agency websites.

Do the work.

But if you’re already a working speaker or comedian, also think seriously about self-publishing for BOR sales.

Key phrase there:

Already working.

Because if you’re not performing in front of audiences, promoting your book becomes much harder.

Otherwise, you’re just another unknown author competing online with thousands of others.

And trust me – I’ve heard plenty of horror stories from self-published authors with boxes of unsold books stacked in their basements.

Books don’t sell themselves.

Promotion matters.

That’s why every movie star on the planet hits the talk show circuit when a new film comes out.

It’s marketing.

And for speakers and comedians, your best marketing opportunity happens right after a great show – when the audience is excited, engaged, and standing right in front of you.

That’s when books sell.

That’s BOR.

And that’s why publishing – whether traditional or self-published – isn’t just about writing.

It’s about business.

Thanks for reading and as always – keep laughing!!

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Business Advice for Comedians: How Much Personal Information Is Too Much?

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Hey Dave – I took your workshop about a year ago. During the business session you mentioned not putting your home address on promotional material. Another comic told me the opposite — that if I’m serious about this business, I should put my address on my website, promo materials, and anything else I send out so bookers can find me easily. What do you think? — E.H.

I can see you!

Hey E.H. — I think you might want to hang out with different comics.

Yes, it’s smart business to make it easy for talent bookers to contact you. But there’s a big difference between being accessible and being too personal.

When you’re promoting your business — which in this case is you — you absolutely want buyers (the people who hire you) to know how to reach you. But it’s also important to remember one thing:

You have no control over who sees your promotional material.

Anything you post online — or even send through the Postal Service — can potentially be seen by anyone. That means not only bookers can find you… but everyone else can too.

And yes, I have a story about that. I’ll get to it in a moment.

First, a little context.

Business methods for comedians and humorous speakers have changed a lot over the years. In my workshops I used to bring in stacks of promotional packages created by major public relations firms for big-name comedians. They were impressive — glossy photos, printed bios, press clippings, and resumes all packaged in designer folders.

Agents and bookers would spread them across their desks and review them like portfolios.

But those days are mostly gone.

Today almost everything is digital. Instead of printed folders, you have websites, email attachments, and online video clips. It’s faster, cheaper, and easier for everyone involved.

But one thing hasn’t changed:

You still don’t know who might end up seeing your information.

You’re looking at me?

If you list your home address on promotional material, you’re not just giving it to talent buyers. You’re giving it to anyone who stumbles across your website or your materials.

And that brings us to the story.

But first, think about this…

The only time someone in this business truly needs your address is when they’re sending you a contract or payment. Sometimes that happens electronically today, but many event planners and bookers still use good old-fashioned snail mail.

If someone wants to know where you’re located for booking purposes, simply list the nearest major city.

For example:

  • New York
  • Los Angeles
  • Cleveland
  • Chicago
  • Tampa

That’s all they need to know to determine whether a booking is realistic.

If they decide to hire you and need to send paperwork or payment, then you can provide a mailing address.

Better yet, since you’re running a business, think like a business.

Use a business address.

If you don’t have an office, a P.O. Box works perfectly and keeps your home address private.

The same goes for phone numbers.

Yes, cell phones make it easy to stay reachable, but think twice before posting your personal number online. Unless you have a phone dedicated strictly to business, anyone can find it.

And that includes:

  • Annoying strangers
  • Former acquaintances
  • People who want to “pitch” you something
  • Or the occasional wacko who just wants someone to bother

A simple “Contact” form on your website works much better. Interested bookers can email you directly, and you keep control of your personal information.

Separate business and personal email accounts as well.

For example, my business email is:

dave@thecomedybook.com

I’m happy to share that publicly because it’s for business. My family and close friends use a different address.

And now… the story I promised.

Years ago, the owner of a well-known comedy club suggested I check out a young, up-and-coming female comedian who was looking for management. I watched her perform and immediately knew she had serious potential.

Over the years she proved that prediction correct. Today she’s a national headliner you’d recognize from television and movies.

But early in her career, she learned a difficult lesson.

She wanted to make sure every booker in North America could reach her, so she printed her home address and personal phone number on all her promotional materials.

And it worked.

She landed a week at a great comedy club a few hours from home — a big step forward in her career.

But here’s what happened next.

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The club displayed her promotional photo outside with the headliners. She was very attractive, and the photo caught people’s attention.

At the end of the week, after paying her, the club owner tossed her promotional packet into the trash. Not because she wasn’t funny — she was — but because bookers rarely keep those materials. They simply don’t have the space.

A few days later she received a phone call from someone claiming to be a talent booker who had her promo material.

You probably see where this is going.

He wasn’t a booker.

He was a comic who had been hanging around the club, saw her photo in the trash, and took the promotional packet — complete with her home address and phone number.

The calls started out normal.

Then they got strange.

Then they got scary.

He became a full-blown stalker.

She had to destroy all her promotional materials and have them reprinted with new contact information. Back then that was expensive because headshots and printing costs weren’t cheap.

But the worst part?

She had to move.

Imagine hearing someone say, “I know where you live.”

That might sound dramatic in a movie, but in real life it’s terrifying.

She eventually relocated and had some very large friends help make sure the stalker wasn’t around when she moved.

The lesson is simple:

You are running a business.

Treat it like one.

Keep your personal life and personal contact information separate from your professional materials.

Because once something is out there — online or in print — you never know who’s going to find it.

Thanks for reading and as always – keep laughing!!

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Build Potential Clients Contact List

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Hi Dave – Speaking and comedy both sound like serious business. I’m dead serious about the value of comedy in business — way more serious than folks who don’t know how to laugh. How do I get those humorless folks to seriously see how silly it is to filter out fun from the expressions of ideas? How do I make it pay for me to show them how to make it pay for them? – R.W.

Seeking Humor Benefits

Hey R.W. — Here’s something I’ve noticed about the humorous speaking business: the people who need us the most are usually the last ones looking for us.

You know exactly who I mean—the humorless folks.

In fact, I’ll go out on a limb and say this: event planners who book humorous speakers already understand the value of humor in business. They get it. Just like we do. Their real challenge is convincing the other people—the ones who need it most—to embrace it.

Anyone who understands the value of humor in business (and in life) already knows the benefits. I won’t list them all, but here are a few favorites:

  • Less stress
  • Better teamwork
  • Increased productivity and attendance
  • Stronger networking and relationships

These are the same issues serious business speakers and trainers talk about every day. You’re doing the same thing, except you’re offering humor as part of the solution.

Humor works!

And honestly, it doesn’t matter whether you’re going to work or cleaning your house—you’re far more likely to do it if there’s an element of fun involved.

So yes, I agree with you completely. It is silly to filter fun out of the expression of ideas. And I’m confident many readers of this newsletter agree too (the humorless folks don’t subscribe).

Which brings us to the real question you asked:

How do I make it pay for me to show them how to make it pay for them?

You want to reach the humorless crowd—and get paid to do it. The problem is, they’re not going to hire you any more than they’re going to sign up for this newsletter. They don’t yet understand the value of your message.

That means you need to focus on the people who do understand it.

Network with event planners and decision-makers who already agree with you.

And the best way to do that is simple: show them what you can do.

In other words—get out and speak.

The best places for this are where both humorous and humorless businesspeople gather:

Meetings.

I’ve talked about this before in past FAQs, and readers have shared some great ideas on places to showcase a program. But here’s a simple starter plan:

Create a short presentation—20 minutes max—on your topic, and volunteer to speak for free at organizations in your area. Rotary clubs, associations, charities, alumni groups, chambers, nonprofits—anything that puts you in front of businesspeople.

If putting together a solid presentation feels overwhelming, I cover this in detail in my book How To Be A Working Corporate Comedian.

Think of free gigs the same way comedians think of showcases. You don’t get paid—but you get in front of people who can pay you later.

But that’s only step one.

You also need to build a list of potential clients and stay in touch with them.

That’s called networking.

Yes, bring a stack of business cards and hand them out after your presentation. That’s basic business sense. Make it easy for people to find you.

But handing out cards alone is a slow game. You can give out a hundred cards and hear from one—or none.

So, here’s how to kick-start your contact list:

Do a prize drawing at every free program.

The prize can be almost anything—a printed transcript of your talk, a plate of cookies, a discounted presentation, even a free one. Use your imagination and offer something your audience would actually want.

Here’s what I do.

At the end of my programs, I announce a drawing for a free autographed copy of one of my books. To enter, people drop a business card—with an email address—into a basket. In return, they’re added to my corporate e-newsletter list.

And this part is important: I make it clear they can unsubscribe easily after receiving it once. No tricks. No pressure.

One person leaves with a book.
I leave with a basket full of contacts who might become paying clients.

That’s a win.

So how do you reach the people who need your message?

You preach the gospel—your ideas—in front of people who already believe. You go where businesspeople and event planners can see and hear you. You use free gigs to build relationships, grow your list, and stay visible.

There are no guarantees they’ll hire you, but at least you’re giving them – and yourself – a chance. You need to show them what you can do and stay in touch.

Thanks for reading and as always – keep laughing!!

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Business card – got one?

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Hi Dave – I’ve decided to order business cards. I was wondering what information I should include. I was thinking phone number, email, and website. Is there anything else I need, or any reason not to include my address? – K.S.

Could use more info…

Hey K.S. – Great decision. I’m always surprised how many comedians or performers still don’t have business cards. Maybe they think it’s a relic from the past—like mailing out DVDs instead of sending a link—but a business card is still an important promotional tool.

How is anyone supposed to know you’re out there and available for gigs if you don’t promote yourself? Unless you’re already a known comic, have a Comedy Central special, or a big-time agent pushing for you, you need to be prepared to handle the business side of your career.

Of course, the first step in any business is to be so good on stage that people want to see you again. That comes from writing, performing, then repeating the process countless times. But once you’re ready to move forward, promotion becomes a major part of your plan. It helps you take advantage of opportunities that can lead to showcases and paying gigs.

Promotion gets your foot in the door. Talent, hard work, and dedication are what get you hired. As I say in my book Comedy FAQs and Answers:

They may call it amateur night, but nobody’s looking to hire an amateur.

Memorize that—it’s true.

Now, your question wasn’t about showcases or all the ways to promote yourself, so let’s talk specifically about business cards.

I write a lot about networking and being part of your local comedy scene because you never know who you’ll meet—someone who could genuinely help your career. But are you prepared when that moment happens?

My latest

Back when I worked at The Improv, comedians would often ask how to get an audition or how to submit a video. Then, instead of handing over a business card, they’d say, “Let me give you my email,” and expect a manager to write it down—or they’d start searching for a bar napkin to scribble on.

Were they nuts? That’s not how you make a professional impression. And in my head, every time someone did that, I’d think: “Amateur…”

Even worse, some comics would just give their name and say, “I’ll send you my link,” or “Keep me in mind for showcases.”

Sorry, but I’m terrible with names. Honestly, there’s a woman interrupting me right now while I’m trying to write this. Her name escapes me… I should remember it—we’re married.

Get the idea?

People like talent bookers, event planners, and club managers deal with a lot of names. Make it easy for them to remember you and contact you. Business cards aren’t outdated or uncool. They’re a simple, effective professional tool.

So to finally answer your question:

Your business card should include:

  • Your name
  • What you do (comedian, speaker, etc.)
  • Your best contact info
    • Phone
    • Email
    • Website (with video and promo materials)

If you have a blog, newsletter, or podcast that supports your career and is actually interesting, you can include that link too.

Electronic business cards—QR codes, NFC cards, or files you can Airdrop—are also becoming popular. They’re great to have, but not everyone uses them yet. For someone just getting started, keep it simple and carry regular business cards.

A smart move is to design your card so it stands out. A photo or logo works, but if you (or a designer friend) can create something genuinely unique, memorable, or just plain cool, people are far more likely to keep it instead of losing it in a drawer.

On the flip side!

Try out a few designs on any inexpensive business card site—there are plenty—and don’t leave the house without at least a few cards on you. You can update or redesign them any time since they’re cheap and sometimes even free.

If you’re serious about building a career, you have to take promoting and networking seriously. When you meet someone new or stumble into an opportunity, a business card clearly communicates who you are and how to reach you. There’s nothing amateur about that.

One important warning:

Never put your home address on your business card or any promotional material. You don’t know where that card may end up, and the last thing you want is some wacko showing up at your door. Yes, this has happened—to both male and female performers.

A business card isn’t an outdated relic. It’s a simple, professional way to help people find you—and hire you.

Thanks for reading and as always – keep laughing!!

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